Apr 15

Christlikeness Part 3 – With God

I ended my last post on Christlikeness with several questions:

 

So then… What is the solution? If Christlikeness is not about being like Jesus, if we are to stop trying to be like Jesus, then what should we do? Where should we go?

 

A different way of looking at this question is this. Given two people, both loving, both joyful, both considerate, patient, pure, generous, you name it, they got it. One is a Christian, one is not, what sets them apart?

If we as Christians are seeking purely for Christlike virtues, what then sets a non-Christian apart from us in our lives? Because I can certainly identify several non-Christians in my knowledge whom exhibit same and sometimes greater virtues than most Christians I know.

Let us push that envelope a bit further, what if you can go to a heaven without God? Would you still want to be there? You experience no pain, no sorrow, no sin, and only perfection, joy, peace, comfort, love, and all that is good, but God is not there, would you still want to be there?

To be honest, at several junctures in my life, I would scream out, “YES!!!,” because I was so troubled with my sins, so entrapped with my depression, insecurity, anxiety and fear, all I could think about was what could I do to get out of my condition, what could I do to be freed and saved from all these junk in my life. With God or not was irrelevant, without pain and without sorrow was all that I could care about.

But that doesn’t work as I discussed in previous post, so we are back to ground zero again, what then matters?!

Exodus 33:12-16

12 Moses said to the Lord, “See, you say to me, ‘Bring up this people,’ but you have not let me know whom you will send with me. Yet you have said, ‘I know you by name, and you have also found favor in my sight.’ 13 Now therefore, if I have found favor in your sight, please show me now your ways, that I may know you in order to find favor in your sight. Consider too that this nation is your people.” 14 And he said,“My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.” 15 And he said to him, “If your presence will not go with me, do not bring us up from here. 16 For how shall it be known that I have found favor in your sight, I and your people? Is it not in your going with us, so that we are distinct, I and your people, from every other people on the face of the earth?”

 

This is the answer. The entire Jewish heritage points to this one particular truth and point:

Matthew 1:23

23 “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son,
and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means, God with us).

 

God’s calling and God’s promise also boil down to this simple idea:

Micah 6:8

He has told you, O man, what is good;
and what does the Lord require of you
but to do justice, and to love kindness,
and to walk humbly with your God?

Matthew 28:20

20 teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.

 

Parallelism is one of the most defining traits of the Hebrew language, and we find in Micah 6:8, the act of doing justice, loving kindness, is in direct parallel to walking with God. It is by walking humbly with God, one exhibits such character of justice and kindness distinct from all other people. It is for this very purpose, Christ came down from heaven to save us from our sins, so that we know God is with us. It is for this very purpose Christ came back to life, so that we can be with God through the great high priest, Christ Himself and no other names, no other barriers, no more annual sacrifices, no more curse and no more condemnation.

 

Therefore, With-God is the crescendo of Christian walk, the result of crucified and resurrected Christ, the source and the sustenance of Christlikeness.

 

Yet, being with God is not something we earn, but an act initiated and completed by God through our participation. Similar to a parent child relationship, a child did not “earn” his or her right into the family, one is simple born into the family based on the initiation of the parents, the nine months of carrying out the baby by the mom and I will stop the analogy right there. Point is, it is not earned, but given into. Still, in the process of growing up, a child can choose to either participate in building a relationship with the parents, hardening one’s own heart, or outright forsaking the family. In a very similar way, people can also choose to receive the adoption of becoming a child of the heavenly Father, or building up walls around one’s heart, physically there but not really, or, leave the relationship altogether.

With all that has been said so far, there are few questions we ought to ask, if with-God is what defines a Christian, then do I truly want to be with God? More than anything else? Really?

If I do want to be with God, what does that look like?

Well… it’s getting late, I will answer that in another post, for now, think about the questions asked here, and really, be honest with yourself, do you desire God, really?

Apr 08

Christlikeness Part 2 – Stop Trying to be Like Jesus

Living the Christian life is not about being like Jesus!

What?! There, I said it, and I will say it again, Christian walk is not about becoming more like Jesus Christ, that is only the end result of something else entirely different.

I find this quote to shed some light on the same idea I desire to communicate:

“Healing is not about doing better or being stronger or going to church more. It is about experiencing a love that will never let you go.”

For all our good intentions and strenuous methods, we do not approach and receive that life in a way we perceived. It is so easily being shaken and broke down when we experience failures after failures and seemingly living a life having the appearance of a Christian, Christ-like, on the surface, but deep beneath the holiness we put on, shattered, and broken pieces of our past, present and future lingering around, waiting for the moment when we slip.

“Where did that come from?”

“That can’t be me?!”

“I’m usually not like this…”

We say, and genuinely so, we are confused by these sudden outburst of anger, jealousy, anxiety, fear, and depression. But why? Where does it come from? How do we fix it?

We then proceed to add on more Bible studies, more prayer, more worship, maybe even verse memorization, or even fasting, for days! Surely these things will make me more like Jesus, right? Right?! Yet, no matter how much we do, how much we try to be like Jesus, we might be good for a while, then, that person said that, this thing happened and that incident reminded me of, on and on and on, we failed at the most insignificant trigger of a much deeper issue at the root of our hearts.

So then… What is the solution? If it’s not about being like Jesus, if we are to stop trying to be like Jesus, then what should we do? Where should we go?

I will talk about it in Christlikeness Part 3!

 

 

Feb 11

Lent 2013

A little history on Lent:

Lent is a solemn observance in the liturgical year of many Christian denominations, lasting for a period of approximately six weeks leading up toEaster Sunday. In the general Latin-rite and most Western denominations Lent is taken to run from Ash Wednesday to Maundy Thursday (Holy Thursday) or to Easter Eve.

The traditional purpose of Lent is the preparation of the believer—through prayerpenancerepentancealmsgiving, and self-denial. Its institutional purpose is heightened in the annual commemoration of Holy Week, marking the death andresurrection of Jesus, which recalls the events of the Passion of Christ on Good Friday, which then culminates in the celebration on Easter Sunday of the Resurrection of Jesus Christ.

 

Last year was my first time practicing Lent, and for that, I gave up Facebook for the duration and fasted the last three days leading up to Easter Sunday.

The experience was an astounding one. I didn’t imagine myself able live without Facebook, considering how many tie-ins it has with all things internet (and I am extremely connected). However, it challenged how I view my relationships and how I communicate.

 

Few things I learned from last year:

- Make every effort to do human interaction before resorting to Facebook. Prioritize face-to-face, call, text, then Facebook, and yes, even for event planning (which is mostly what I use Facebook for).

- Do NOT be a comparison or attention whore, it is so easy to lose oneself in the stream of news-feeds and how many comments and likes a post can garner. I get caught up in the comparison trap or the attention seeking trap more often than not, and I am learning not to fall for it.

- Similar to first learning, don’t just stalk people on Facebook, go up to them in real life, ask them how they are doing, and actually care about what they are telling you. Ask them to share their stories, show you the pictures they took, instead of checking it out on your own on Facebook.

- Regarding fasting, all I can say is, that communion on Easter Sunday was the best communion I ever had! This is actually the original, major motivation behind Lent, the priests and monks would give up bread or food, and have the entire monastery go for 40 days without baking anything. Sunday morning comes, the smell of fresh baked goods will wake people up in an amazing aroma, that is suppose to reminiscent the pleasing aroma of the Risen Christ.

 

So for Lent 2013, I am planning on giving up Facebook again, in addition, giving up all simple carbohydrates and fasting the last three days before Easter Sunday.

What about you? Have you done Lent before? What are you planning on giving up for this year?

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